08 Dec 2013

wandering the countryside, fiji {photo diary}

IMG_3890IMG123
IMG_3878IMG123
IMG_3879IMG123
IMG_3883IMG123
IMG_3935IMG123
IMG_3936IMG123
IMG_3943IMG123
IMG_3944IMG123
IMG_3946IMG123
IMG_3948IMG123

IMG_3896IMG123

2 Comments

  1. Krista Peck wrote:

    So crisp, green and refreshing! It looks like a beautiful place to visit.

    Posted on 12.8.13 · Reply to comment

Leave a Comment

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

Instagram

  • Do the thing that chills you down to the bone. I keep saying this like it’s a sermon, a song, and it’s taken me to places I couldn’t have ever imagined.
.
I moved to Los Angeles nearly three years because I need to get lost, uncomfortably so, so I could find myself, scrubbed and renewed. And these three years have been some of the hardest I’ve known, but also humbling, exhilarating, and clarifying. In my search for quiet and calm, I could finally hear myself. And when you hear, you start to listen to what you want versus what the world tells you to want. And that’s when the magic happens.
.
This year, I made a point of serving women and the marginalized. I got tired of making white men richer; the rest of us deserve the sky too. And in that work, I got further clarity on what else I wanted. I wanted to work with women my age to help them define their second acts. Moving from success to significance, now that we’re more conscious of the fact that we have fewer years ahead of us. Morbid, I know, but recognizing time as the most valuable thing we have has a way of making us surgical about our wants.
.
Today, I closed on a project with a peer and good friend. She’s a successful entrepreneur who wanted to reshape her business to be more of a purpose-driven one. I feel humbled that she trusted me with her vulnerability. She told me she was buying clarity and perspective. I gave her that and a framework. Before I left, she hugged me and told me she had a plan. That the road ahead was clear, structured and achievable. And damn that felt good.
.
I’m in a Lyft on the 101 and I feel good. Strong. Confident. Sometimes I hate that I’m in my 40s, but it’s times like these when I’m grateful for the years. I’ve been through it all and I have perspective, knowledge, experience, and the kind of calm age breeds. I can’t even imagine what I’ll know in 10 years, 20
.
And it feels really fucking good to lift another woman up.
.
.
.
.
#realtalk #businesscoaching #storyteller #lifelessons #weekendvibes #thehustleisreal #femtrepreneur #entrepreneur #risingtidesociety
  • Four years ago, when this photo was taken, I attempted a return to my yoga practice. I practiced every nearly every day from 2001-2009, but then I stopped. When I tried again in 2014, I was ready to reassume the shapes I knew, physically, but I wasn’t prepared for how this practice changes you if you allow it. The practice makes you a humble student. It’s not about the asana. It’s about your work off the mat.
✨
My teacher once told me the mark of an advanced practitioner is not the yogi kicking up into handstand. That’s ego. Rather, it’s the yogi who goes to a basics class to relearn the poses as if she’s encountered them for the first time. That’s the practice. The work.
✨
At 42, this is the work I try to do every single day.
.
.
.
.
.
#yoga #yogaposes #yogaeverydamnday #wednesdaywisdom #risingtidesociety #lifelessons #dothework
  • Do the thing that chills you down to the bone. I’ve been thinking about time a lot, as well as ambition.
.
When I was young, I was hungry. I was aggressive and relentlessly ambitious to the point of being myopic. I had to prove something to the world, myself, perhaps my mother, and I needed to collect these totems or the signifiers of success.
.
But there comes a point when you shift from desiring success to significance. The shift is imperceptible, but it happens because you start to be aware of time and the fact that you have fewer years ahead than behind. That realization is potent and frightening because death takes it all, strips us of ourselves and we return to that from which we’ve come. We can’t cart along our trophies and bank accounts and handbags to the afterlife. Those things have been reduced to dust and they no longer have any meaning.
.
You start thinking about time and its value. Am I squandering it? Investing in it? Living it? Breathing through it.
.
I’m frightened of death and the irony that I wanted to take my own life two years ago doesn’t escape me. I don’t have faith that could hold my hand and guide me through and out of the dark. I simply believe there’s nothing and this life is the one true thing I know of.
.
Suddenly success morphs into significance because you start to do the math and wonder what you’ve done in this one beautiful life that will leave its mark. Maybe we’ll all be forgotten. Maybe we’ll leave indelible prints that linger. I don’t know.
.
What I do know is that the definition of success is elusive. Just when you think you have it, it changes form. And the things I wanted five, ten years ago aren’t that which I desire now. There’s want, but it’s a different kind of want. There’s the want of designing a life that’s conscious, graceful, impactful, curiosity-driven, and remarkable.
.
I sat down with a peer today and she trusted me as a marketer, and as someone at her level who could lend perspective. She has the tools, it’s just a matter of me being her guide and telling her that she alone can grant herself permission to shift her business and change her life.
  • When you’re trying to get WORK done and your pet is back on their bullshit.
.
Who has a little one (pet, baby, cactus) they play with during the day to keep sane?
.
.
.
.
#catstagram #tabbycat #thehustleisreal #freelancer #mondaymotivation #femtrepreneur #hussy #hussycats #imtryingtowork
  • My mother had died a year ago and this wasn’t about her. My pain exceeded her. I was in new terrain — a dark country to which I’d emigrated yet it was foreign to me. This wasn’t like the darkness of before, this was a fresh hurt. A ground that had given way beneath my feet and the fall felt bottomless. There existed no end to it. There was only the enormity of the hurt and its persistence. I woke to it. I carried the weight of it. I fell asleep to it. Even now I couldn’t meet my friend in the day because the light had become an assault.
.
You don’t understand, I said. This is constant. Again with the blank stare. The discomfort and confusion. I had created a ripple, a disturbance in one place. I was no longer the fun friend who cracked jokes and entertained her for years. I had become something other.
.
All I wanted was for her, for anyone, to say: I love you. I’m here for you. Tell me, what can I do?
.
Have you thought about going back to yoga? she asked, signaling for the check. This is just a slump. You’ll snap out of it. You’ll see.
.
It was if a curtain had fallen over our table and the room had gone black.
.
I wrote about depression. HIT THE LINK IN PROFILE AND CLAP YOUR HEART OUT.
.
#realtalk #depression #mentalhealth #femtrepreneur #entrepreneur #ladyboss #tbt #reallife #risingtidesociety #thehustle
  • ‪BIG NEWS. I’m piloting a 6-week group coaching course that covers how to validate your business concept and model, build your brand (story, positioning, benefits, message, voice and tone) and find/connect with your ideal customer.
.
While there's a lot of garbage and woo phonies out there, I'm serving up the real deal. Who am I? I've published two books, built a $20MM company, and have worked with world-class brands and brilliant start-ups. I know how to tell stories.
.
So, I'm launching a course that will focus on how to:
.
🎈Define your brand and difference.
🎈Create a voice and style that's all your own--in everything from your writing to your fonts and photography.
🎈Get laser-focused on who your customer is and how to go after them.
🎈Write copy that puts your customer's heart on pause.
.

If you're a small business owner or freelancer building their business or looking to build (or re-invent) your career through your brand, this is for you. This is for people who are tired of jargon and want the answers they need in plain old English. This is for people who are tired of the disappointing free downloads and courses taught by people who haven't achieved what they're hocking. This is for people who don't want to just color outside of the lines but want to torch the damn coloring book.
.
Beta @ $1500. Weekly live sessions, hot seats, Slack group, weekly challenges, worksheets, tutorials. Ping me if you’re interested. contact@phoebeandkate.co
.
.
.
.
#onlinecoaching #onlineclasses #brandstrategy #brandstrategist #thehustle #femtrepreneur #girlboss #marketing #storyteller #groupclass #wednesdaywisdom
  • What a magical, yummy time at @smorgasburgla. The vibe is SO different from NY. Fewer chef personalities. More home cooks and small businesses. Incredible ethnic food and such a cool energy all around.
.
.
.
.
#weekendvibes #sundayfunday #smorgasburg #foodporn #foodstagram #food52 #instayum #tacos #arepas
  • Part of being a consultant is self-care. Now this isn’t about fancy candles and spending piles of money. This is about managing stress, anxiety, and the crippling self doubt we feel when we go at it alone.
✨
My self-care is all about meditation, medication, yoga, walking to clear my head and get the creative juices flowing, not taking on crazy clients, saying no, having me time and doing the thing that gives me calm—cook.
✨
For years I published a food blog, lovelifeeat.com where I documented thousands of dishes I made, baked, and ate.
✨
While I’m no longer feeling the blogging vibe and I had to hock the fancy camera, I’m back to cooking yummy food.
✨
And eating it, natch.
✨
What’s your self-care regimen?
✨
✨
✨
#clementinedaily #delish #eeeeats #eeeeeats #weekendvibes #sundayfunday #food52 #food52 #foodstagram #healthyeats #selfcare #thehustleisreal #femaleentrepreneur #instayum #yahoofood #buzzfeedfood #eatingwell #storyteller

Follow Me!